Catch the latest episode of “Not a Great Whisper,” where Katy Rey and the ever-inspiring Jillian Abby kick back for a chat that’s as lively as it is deep. Jillian is no ordinary guest; she brings a storm of creativity and bold, life-changing ideas to the table. Her stories aren’t just engaging—they’re a call to embrace the idea that change is good and it’s okay to evolve. As you listen, you might find yourself seeing your own life in a new light. The chemistry between Katy and Jillian is palpable—they’re not host and guest but great friends with deep mutual respect, making their conversation even more enriching.
Jillian opens up with such honesty and warmth that you’ll feel like part of their conversation. Whether she’s sharing her perspective on some of life’s hardest challenges through her Reframe with Jillian Abby platform or captivating an audience with her talks, Jillian’s blend of humor and personal insight is irresistible. Her book, “Perfectly Queer,” invites everyone to explore themes of identity and acceptance, proving that her stories resonate universally. It’s for anyone who’s up for a good read about real, raw life experiences—no LGBTQ identification required.
When Jillian came out—at the age of 38—she was a married mom of two and had built a life that many might envy from the outside. Yet, inside, she wrestled with a truth that would reshape her entire world. It was tough. Tougher than she had even built up in her head. She lost a bunch of friends, and even some family members—people she thought would always stick by her side. But that tough time didn’t last forever. Since then, she’s built a new circle packed with “hashtag real friends” who really get her and support her for who she truly is. Jillian’s story shows that sometimes, being true to yourself might mean saying goodbye to the old, but it also opens the door to meeting amazing new people who’ll have your back no matter what.
In this episode, Jillian also opens up about the dynamics of her immediate family, painting a picture of love, challenges, and reconciliation. She shares the evolving relationship with her mother—how they’ve moved from misunderstanding to meaningful dinners. Jillian’s heart truly lights up when she talks about her wife, Jen, and their two amazing kids, describing how Jen has become the ‘missing piece’ in their family puzzle. She doesn’t shy away from discussing her ex-husband either, giving props to his wonderful girlfriend, who has become another cherished adult in her children’s lives. This blended family narrative isn’t about co-parenting; it’s about creating a network of support and affection, proving that family isn’t about blood ties—it’s about love, respect, and the occasional tough conversations that bring everyone closer.
Listen in as Jillian Abby shares her upbeat take on changing courses in life whenever you feel the call. This isn’t your average chat; it’s a fun, inspiring dive into embracing who you really are and having the guts to make big changes. You won’t want to miss hearing from Jillian, who brings a refreshing, real-deal perspective on living authentically and inspiring others to do the same. Tune in for some real talk and genuine laughs with a woman who’s passionate about turning life’s pages and helping others shine their brightest.